It’s contagious. Stay away from people that have it & rid of it, if its you.
NO ONE LIKES A COMPLAINER.
Straight up. It causes anxiety and negative vibes for whoever has to listen to it, as well as the person doing the complaining. So either way you are doing yourself a favor by surrounding yourself with positive people who make moves towards the better, or being that person yourself. Complaining about a situation and doing nothing towards fixing it is called whining. Babies whine.
We may have to do a little self diagnosis today & that’s fine…or maybe it’s actually not you & it’s a person you’re around a lot. If you get in the habit of jumping straight to complaining and thinking everything negative you possibly can, you will always be miserable, you will always be complaining. People will feel your negativity & avoid you. I’m actually telling you to avoid anyone like this because you may not be strong enough to [not match their energy] which leads to you being miserable as well. Misery really does love company. It makes them feel better about being miserable if you are too.
There are people who wish for your life.
Remember when Kim K. lost her diamond earring in the ocean and Kourtney was like “Kim theres people that are dying.” I felt that. I was really complaining because my child spilt milk & there are people wishing they had milk to spill. I am not that person anymore & it is very hard for me to surround myself with these types of people,it is contagious. A messy house means a roof over my head & happy children, Dishes mean there was food to eat, so on and so forth. I want you to enforce positivity into your daily life. Instead of saying why is this happening to me? Say why is this happening for me and how can I use it towards my improvement or the improvement of my life. What can I do to improve the situation? That shows strength,optimism & leadership.
Goodnight xoxo
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