I want to be clear about something.
I am not trying to be a motivational speaker.
I don’t have a perfect routine, a color-coded planner, or a life that suddenly “clicked.”
I have notes all over my house and three calendars but I still fall short.
I’m not here to sell you discipline, hustle, or a version of healing that looks good on social media.
I’m just a human being trying to become a better version of myself than I was.
Some days that looks like growth.
Some days that looks like survival.
If I share my journey, it’s not because I have it figured out. It’s because I don’t. I know how lonely it can feel when you think everyone else is winning at life while you’re just trying to keep your head above water.
I don’t believe in promoting perfection.
Perfection is exhausting, unrealistic, and honestly… isolating.
Life isn’t a competition.
There’s no finish line where someone hands you a trophy for struggling the least.
There’s no prize for suffering silently or pretending you’re okay when you’re not.
Life is hard.
Some days the bravest thing you can do is admit that out loud.
If you’re walking through something heavy right now, I don’t want to stand on a stage above you and tell you what to do. I want to walk beside you. At our own pace. On the same uneven ground.
No rushing.
No comparing.
No pretending.
Just showing up, sometimes messy, tired, hopeful, discouraged and choosing to keep going anyway.
So if some days are heavy for you too, you’re not weak.
You’re human.
And if you need someone to sit in the weight with you instead of trying to fix it, I’m here. Walking. Learning. Becoming. Right alongside you.
-C
@allthingscici 