YOU get what YOU give.

Treat people how you want to be treated.

& more concepts you learned when you were 5.

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Dedicating this one to 2 of my good friends that check on me daily & never fail to show me that good people do exist. 2 people that have good qualities that i’ve picked up myself on my journey to becoming a better friend & person. Thank-you Chloe & Natalia!

IT STARTS WITH YOU.

Theres a reason i’m so big on NOT matching energy & just always maintaining yours and it’s because of the simple fact that if you match energy & act disrespectful because you feel like you were disrespected, you are the same as this person and nothing gets solved. The world has become a huge competition of who has more & who is better. Who is right & who is wrong. An argument takes two, If there is ONE person who has this mindset, there is no argument. Stop worrying about how others are acting entirely. If you maintain your positivity (even when mad) & willingness to give, & be patient with others, & have a willingness to LEARN other people, (No one is you, so stop thinking they are.) then you have the power to create more giving,loving human beings in the people around you. OR simply just keep negativity out of your life. Both wins.

I’m not asking you to TRY to change anyone around you at all. I know this is confusing. Okay let me break it down for you. If people really care about you, & you treat them right every day, your love & gratitude will rub off on them & they’ll want to be just like that. They’ll want to treat you right. They’ll wonder how you’re always so at peace & nothing can really bring you down. Why doesn’t he/she argue back? Why is he/she so happy & secure within him/herself she doesnt have to win? BECAUSE YOU ALREADY WIN! You have peace that a lot of people want and will never have. BASICALLY START TO GIVE MORE OF AN F ABOUT OTHERS THAN YOU DO YOURSELF & MORE ABOUT GIVING THAN RECEIVING, YOUR LIFE WILL NATURALLY BECOME BETTER. (you’ll get more out of it,fact.) This is not to be confused with being a nice person & letting people walk all over you, if your energy and positivity does not help change a situation, that person or situation need to go. Point Blank. The right people will gravitate towards you if you are consistently a good person. Protecting your peace is important, it starts with being a peaceful person, and ends with only keeping peaceful people around you.

“IF YOU DON’T HAVE ANYTHING NICE TO SAY…..”

YOU ALL KNOW WHAT MOM SAID.

Peace of mind is better than being right.

Don’t use this concept “You get what you give” TO HURT others. Use it only on YOUR personal growth. Don’t go around treating people like crap & using the excuse “Well,You get what you give.” No, that makes for more crappy people. More so use it towards how YOU treat others daily. EVERY DAY remind yourself “I will receive the energy I put out today.” Have you ever had someone get upset with you for something in your mind could be the dumbest thing in the world, you may even disagree, BUT you just said you know what, I’m sorry I made you feel that way or not respond at all and just let it go? Did that person continue with screaming and was there a continued argument? Many insults thrown back and forth? Probably not. In the heat of the moment, words can be said & things can be done that could never be forgotten or forgiven “because you were mad,” In that moment, your relationship with that person, or if it was a stranger, your PEACE, should more important than being right. Once you let go the strong urge we all have to be right,win arguments & hurt others more than they can hurt you, you become a happier more peaceful person all around. Nothing can phase you. You walk away feeling fine from basically every altercation with anyone because of the fact alone that you don’t need to argue,hurt or receive any validation to feel content with yourself.. I can’t express to you enough how sometimes, actually MOST OF THE TIME, IT’S JUST NOT WORTH IT. There will always be not so intelligent people, there will always be a**holes, & there will ALWAYS be situations that test this very theory on humans every single day. Even from the people you are closest to.

TAKEAWAY:

IF WE AS ADULTS ALL START TO CARE MORE ABOUT OUR COMMUNITIES,WORK PLACES & EVEN OUR HOMES BEING SAFE HAVENS & PEACEFUL PLACES RATHER THAN, BEING RIGHT, OR WINNING ARGUMENTS… OUR CHILDREN WILL TAKE THESE CONCEPTS TO SCHOOL. MORE FRIENDS WILL BE MADE, LESS BULLIES. BETTER ADULTS.

BE THE ONE THAT PROVIDES THE PEACE.

BE THE ONE THAT WAVES AND SMILES AT PEOPLE AND TELLS THEM TO HAVE A GREAT DAY.

BE SO ANNOYINGLY AT PEACE THAT NO ONE CAN DEFEAT YOU BECAUSE OF THE GOOD ENERGY YOU CARRY WITH YOU EVERY DAY. THE SIMPLE FACT THAT YOU’RE NOT A JERK WILL PROVIDE YOU WITH AN EASIER LIFE & BETTER PEOPLE AROUND YOU.

MISERY LOVES COMPANY. THE PEOPLE WHO FUEL OFF OF NEGATIVITY WILL START DROPPING LIKE FLIES BECAUSE YOU HAVE NOTHING TO PROVIDE THEM.

IN RESULT, EVERY DAY IS GOOD FOR YOU, BECAUSE YOU HAVE LESS TO DEAL WITH. SIMPLE.

TODAY THANK YOUR FAMILY & PAST TEACHERS,COACHES & PREACHERS FOR REPEATING THEMSELVES COUNTLESS AMOUNTS OF TIMES DAILY TO TRY AND INSTILL THESE CONCEPTS IN YOUR BRAIN THAT YOU NEVER REALLY GOT UNTIL YOU WERE ABOUT 30 YEARS OLD. LOL…. (if you are still riding out your youth, I strongly suggest taking in what I say & making your life easier today. XOXOXO